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Wednesday, October 08, 2008

How To Deal With Bankruptcy, a Job Hunt and The Wild Stock Market

I always enjoy going to Ginger’s site — the blog called “Girls Just Wanna Have Funds”. I find myself invigorated every time I pay her a visit, thanks to the vibrant colors of her site and the energy she puts forth in her posts. Well this time, Ginger brings us an awesome Carnival of Personal Finance, which I was happy to be part of. Our post on Best Places For Your Money When The Stock Market Tanks made it as an Editor’s Choice! Thank you to Ginger for presenting a great array of finance articles, some of which got my attention:

In the meantime, Dollar Frugal hosts a hefty Festival of Frugality, Benjamin Franklin Edition, which contain these informative and timely frugal posts:

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Sunday, October 05, 2008

What’s The Best Financial Advice You’ve Received?

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It’s been a while since I got tagged with a financial meme. This time, Aryn from Sound Money Matters tagged me to answer the question: What is some of the best financial advice you’ve received?

I grew up in a household that didn’t really talk about money that much — at least, to the extent that I would have liked to. To this day, my father doesn’t really like it when I talk about money; whenever I bring the subject up, he is quick to remind me that “money isn’t everything”. I guess it’s never really been an exciting topic for my parents, who are both hard-working people who have a pretty relaxed view about finance. All I can say is that while growing up, I noticed that my parents never fussed or worried about money (regardless of how much or how little they had of it), which took a backstage to everything else. Money came second to faith, family and community.

But I’ll have to say that one of the most meaningful pieces of financial advice I’ve ever gotten, actually came from my dear old Dad. He told me to study well and to get into the field of technology and computer science. He advised me to pursue a career that was in high demand; if I did so, then I shouldn’t have an issue about keeping a job or making enough bucks.

Well, I guess he was right. :) I have to say thanks to my Dad for the awesome advice!

Now if you’re reading this and you have a blog, consider yourself tagged. Won’t you share with us the best advice you’ve come across?

~~ooOoo~~

Now on to financial articles I enjoyed this week!

Recommended Personal Finance Reads

Additional News Around The Financial Blogosphere

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Wednesday, October 01, 2008

The Frugal Duchess: How To Live Well and Save Money, Plus The Carnivals

The Frugal Duchess: How To Live Well and Save MoneyWithin the next week or two, I’m having a fellow personal finance blogger and Miami Herald columnist, Sharon Harvey Rosenberg of The Frugal Duchess, share some of her thoughts here with you as she promotes her new book “The Frugal Duchess: How To Live Well and Save Money.” Sharon will be launching a book tour both online (and off?) to give us a chance to learn more about this project. For all you money saving mavens out there, do give this book a look see — I’m waiting for my own copy at this time with much anticipation, especially after reading a little about what went into it, in Sharon’s blog post about her book writing experience: “What I Learned About Money From Writing A Book”.

Here’s a little bit about what she says about her book:

Instead of writing a how-to book, Bob suggested that I combine my Miami Herald columns with a narrative. I took his advice on that matter and others. It was a good formula and allowed me to mix finance with stories about my family. My vault of family tales, includes portraits of my unusual grandmothers, hard-working women from the South, who left their husbands and children for assorted reasons.

I’m intrigued!

So please stay tuned for more on this book tour, which we’ll be presenting to you here over the next several weeks.

For now, let’s check out the action at a few carnivals.

Debt Kid presented a very special Meltdown Edition of the Carnival of Personal Finance, with the following great reads among 56 money articles:

Value For Your Life hosted the Festival of Frugality, Gratitude Edition, where I enjoyed these selections:

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Sunday, September 28, 2008

Charitable Giving, Career Tips and A Vegetable Garden @ The Roundup

Things are a little rough at home right now as a few more members of my household have picked up the flu I had earlier. So I’m now groggily manning the fort, attending to the infirm. I’ll probably have to keep this a bit short.

Here are some recent money articles I had a chance to look at:

Recommended Personal Finance Reads

That’s all I can muster for now…. I hope to be back on track in a few days.


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Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Feeling Sick On The Eve Of A Fun, Cheap Date @ The Carnivals

I’ve got a fantastic cheap date planned but I’ve been felled by the flu.

So You Think You Can Dance
So You Think You Can Dance photo by starpulse

Ugh! Just as the carnivals are heralding the start of autumn, I’ve caught my first bug of the season. Whether it’s the cold or flu, I’m not feeling too hot, am feeling extremely lethargic and am functioning at a snail’s space, so I hope I’m still able to do a decent job with telling you about what’s out there at our weekly personal finance carnivals.

I *really* need to get better and recover from this bug as I’m all set to attend a planned date with my spouse — one I’ve been anticipating for some time. :) We received a couple of free tickets to the “So You Think You Can Dance” tour — courtesy of Wise Bread who conducted a fun giveaway for the tickets when they debuted the “Women of Personal Finance” spotlight event. Hopefully, I get over this bug in time to make it to the tour tomorrow evening!

We sure need something like a night out to take our minds away from the unsettling news that have been swirling around the markets over the last week.

So how is everybody else coping? Let’s check out the carnivals and find out:

Sound Money Matters puts together a fall edition of the Carnival of Personal Finance where I picked up these articles:

The carnival host temporarily bailed out of The Festival of Frugality. But My Two Dollars eventually got it together, presenting a list of great posts which included these gems:

The Real Estate Carnival found its way to Pasadena. Thanks so much to Doug Willis from up2date realestate.com for awarding us with The President’s Trophy for our entry about an unusual investment property turned green home.

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Sunday, September 21, 2008

Your Spouse Has Debt and A Spending Addiction: Avoid A Bailout

Before I launch into my rather massive linkfest this week, I’d like to cover an interesting discussion I’ve come across at the Wesabe forums lately, which I’ve been visiting in my spare time. This particular discussion is about dealing with spousal debt.

spending addiction, credit card debt

What do you do if your spouse has a spending addiction and is irresponsible about their finances? The consensus: don’t rely on a financial rescue package like the one the government has been using on our economy. Executing a bailout won’t resolve the problem behavior (and in fact may encourage it).

It gets pretty dicey when your partner racks up the credit card debt, and just doesn’t know how to stop spending. Here’s how the Wesabe community responds to this issue:

How To Handle Your Partner’s Credit Card Debt and Spending Addiction

#1 Don’t convert credit card debt into home equity debt. It’ll just free up your spouse’s cards so that he or she can do more damage. Unless you freeze or cut up those cards and commit to paying down debt, any loan modification efforts will only lead to increased spending temptations and additional debt.

#2 Encourage your spouse to seek debt and psychological counseling. This can be tricky. Have you ever seen the show on television called “Intervention”? You can only instigate change if you desire to. Unfortunately, many people don’t see their debt as a problem and continue to be in denial.

#3 Don’t bail your spouse out. Discuss the possibility of separating your finances with your partner who cannot manage their debt. See if you can work out an agreement wherein you keep separate financial accounts.

#4 Approach the issue with sensitivity. Be supportive and provide a positive attitude and loving approach to your spouse’s problems.

#5 Become your household’s main financial manager and give your spouse a spending allowance. Can you make your spouse agree to a financial plan? You’ll have to work as a team on this. You’re basically imposing strict limits on your household spending.

#6 Help your spouse gain more of a financial education. Provide your partner with financial resources such as books and articles on how to manage one’s money.

#7 Visit a financial professional: a debt counselor or a financial planner can help straighten out your financial issues and provide valuable input, third party observations and expertise to address your concerns.

As I mentioned, I picked up these situational pointers from the Wesabe community groups, where you can find more helpful discussions of the financial sort. It’s definitely a great place to visit!

Now on to some more discussions around the blogosphere….

Recommended Personal Finance Reads

Additional Financial Articles I Enjoyed

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Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Tax Management, One Dollar Home, DIY Haircut @ The Carnivals

The last couple of days have been nuts for us harried investors. I long for the day when we can look back at all this, shrug our shoulders and talk about how our portfolio survived this period not too much the worse for wear. With ongoing foreclosures and failures in the banking and insurance industries posting a constant drumbeat in the news, it doesn’t feel like the mood will change anytime soon.

I have a few things to do in the financial front and it’s looking more like this is a good time to leverage a weak stock market and make some financial moves — at lower stock market prices. I’m evaluating a possible Roth IRA conversion for me and my spouse, maybe doing some portfolio adjustments like adding some new asset classes to our portfolio, and even (gasp!) checking out some annuity products. I’ll wait for the markets to calm down a bit before doing anything.

Anything just as exciting in the carnivals?

The Personal Financier did a great job putting together the Carnival of Personal Finance this week. Here are some finds I’d like to bring to your attention:

The Festival of Frugality can be found over at Living Almost Large where I spotted these cool articles:

Also, My Daily Dollars featured a great Carnival of Money Stories where my post: Basic Business Advice from an Accidental Entrepreneur, was selected as an Editor’s Pick. Many thanks for this honor!

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Sunday, September 14, 2008

Toys R Us Coupons and Age Discrimination @ The Roundup

The Consumerist just reported that apparently, Toys R Us discriminates against young grandparents. The toy store is offering a 20% discount coupon for grandparents, except that you need to be 50 or older to be eligible for the discount. Tut tut.

So if you’re thinking of using this coupon to buy goodies for your grandkids, it will only be effective if you’re way over the hill. Maybe the coupon should say “We Love OLD grandparents?”

Toys R Us Grandparents Coupon

Shockingly, I have friends my age who are already grandparents (but I’m certainly not going to be one for a good long while) and some of them are even attending that alumni reunion I’ve been trying to avoid.

The coupon thing doesn’t really bother me though — I’m a little bit more perturbed by the fact that I’ve got peers my age who have grandchildren. That’s just too weird a thought for me to absorb right now as I think it’s still quite a stretch to think of myself in such a role, given that I feel stuck in a time warp sometimes and forget that I’m no longer in my 20’s. I’m still busy trying to fund some 529 plans here…. ;)

Let’s move on right along then — how about joining me in absorbing these financial articles instead?

Recommended Personal Finance Reads

Additional Financial Articles I Enjoyed

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