Do you know anyone who deserves the “Most Frugal Person” award? And if you do know someone who’s crossed the line to becoming the “cheapest person ever” (read: one who saves money at everyone else’s expense), then how do you deal with them? I’m glad I haven’t yet found myself facing a situation wherein I have to coax a cheapskate to part with their money. Needless to say, if your cheapskate is a family member, I can imagine just how frustrating things can get.
In my mind, I only know of a few ways to handle a serious miser — especially one who won’t fork out their share of the tab. You can either avoid involving them in a financial situation, or if there’s no tip-toeing around the subject, you’d have to confront them about their behavior. Either way, it’s awkward. Of course, you can always just accept things as they are and bail out a scrooge every now and then.
When CNN Money came out with a poll that tackled this very question, I found myself agreeing with the majority:
Just for fun, I thought I’d compile some examples of serious tightwad behavior from the web. Chances are, you’ve not seen anything as absurd as these cases I’ve come across. But I could be wrong and you may just know someone who is resourceful, creative and stingy enough to do these things. If you have, then feel free to share your story with us!
The Worst Case of Cheapness I’ve Ever Heard (From AOL Money And Finance)
The Cheapo Anniversary, Submitted by: MsBubbely
My mom and dad go to the store and each pick out a card for their anniversary. They hand each other the card they have chosen, read each others cards, and put them back on the rack! Blogger’s Note: I actually don’t think this is a bad idea at all!
Water Cheapskate, Submitted by: GBSmgmt
We have family friends that have two toilets. One is for No. 1 and the second is for No. 2. The number one toilet is only flushed once, and that’s at the end of the day. The second toilet is flushed for waste removal only, and all toilet paper is put into a plastic bag to prevent additional flushing. Blogger’s Note: If we were experiencing a drought, I can imagine going through such extremes, but not so sure about doing this on a regular basis.
Kitty Horseshoes, Submitted by: Stantango
My brother is so cheap that he couldn’t bear to throw the ‘used’ cat litter away and put it in his horseshoe pits instead. Blogger’s Note: Caution, this is hazardous to your health! Don’t let a pregnant woman get near those horseshoes or risk a possible fetal disease called toxoplasmosis!
Fridge Thief, Submitted by: Karenkburge
I had a roommate that wouldn’t buy her own food. She would eat what I bought — I would even find her boyfriend in our kitchen cooking dinner for the two of them with the food that I bought. I decided to handle this problem by leaving food at work and eating my main meal there. The problem was that we worked together and she figured out what food was mine and ate it at work! Blogger’s Note: Kick out your roommate! Find someone else who doesn’t filch. Someone who has no shame about taking your food could feel the same about taking anything else you own.
Tooth Cap Tightwad, Submitted by: ELFbuying
One of my husband’s co-workers is so cheap, after he accidentally swallowed a tooth cap and didn’t want to pay a few hundred dollars to have a new one made, he actually fished it out of the toilet after it worked its way through his system and had the dentist re-use it. Blogger’s Note: Even in desperation, I’d borrow money first.
Sleep Washing, Submitted by Dunnontn:
My brother-in-law sets his alarm clock for 2AM. He’ll get up and do his laundry then because the night rates are cheaper than the day rates. Blogger’s Note: Unfortunately for me, I’ll have to be out a few bucks. I value my sleep at rates much higher than laundry rate savings.
Bar Nuts to Go, Submitted by Jerseygirl225:
My friend would go to a bar with a ziplock bag and would take cheez-its, pretzels and popcorn that are put onto the bar into her ziplock bag and bring them home to eat. Blogger’s Note: I don’t think this is too uncommon. I’ve known people who do this and actually stuff hors d’eouvres into their purses to eat later. Though they’ve admitted it’s not to save a few dollars but more so because they’re always hungry.
All for a Quarter, Submitted by Da3B:
We superglued a quarter to the floor so our cheap co-worker would try to get it up. Not to our surprise, he tried and tried and tried. Finally after about a week of this, he bought a $2.00 chisel to finally scrape this quarter up. Blogger’s Note: This must be a joke, or else that chisel will be returned fairly soon.
Pilfering Papers, Submitted by Bijou02:
I know a person who goes through people’s recycled newspapers and magazines to pick out the magazines and newspapers for the past week. That’s how he stays up on his current events. Blogger’s Note: He may not have a library in his town!
Tea Anyone? Submitted by AKingBuyAHouse:
My mother-in-law uses the same tea bag all week. Blogger’s Note: I have some family who make broth out of eaten chicken bones and corn husks. I hope they don’t read this.
Cheapy Pop, Submitted by Dhuntc70:
I know someone who is so cheap that when they go to the movie theater, they go to the garbage can to find a used jumbo popcorn bucket. He then goes to the counter to get new popcorn because you get free refills on the jumbo size. By the way, he makes a little over $100,000 a year. Blogger’s Note: He must be rich by now.
The Paper Thief, Submitted by: CFree95589
The cheapest person I knew was a coworker who used to steal toilet paper from the company bathrooms. He also used to take pens, pencils and tape. Blogger’s Note: Could this be why we’re always out of supplies?
Bathtub Blues, Submitted by Justdyan37:
Our bathtub wall caved in, and my ex-husband fixed it with trash bags and duct tape. He left it that way until mushrooms grew behind the toilet. Blogger’s Note: This actually happened to me at one point in my life but I swear it was because of procrastination, not miserliness!
Air Drying, Submitted by Nononoall3:
My ex would send me outdoors to hang clothes on a line instead of letting me use the dryer. He also would change the buttons on the dishwasher, which defeats the drying feature on it. Blogger’s Note: If you’re going to go this far, just sell all your appliances.
Vacuuming The Cheap Way, Submitted by Mfmichillin:
I hate to admit this, but instead of buying those costly vacuum bags, I would get some old socks and put a paper sack over the sock and attach them to the vacuum cleaner. Blogger’s Note: Wow, good idea!
Reusable Rinsing Cups, Submitted by Kurtfan14:
After my fiancee’s family are done brushing their teeth, they use a Dixie cup to rinse. That’s not a big deal, except all four adults use the same cup for one week. Blogger’s Note: I suppose they think the cup is sanitary because it’s constantly filled with mouth wash or minty water?
Well that was a trip. What I gather from this is that there’s nothing wrong in being so cheap — or being extremely frugal — just as long as you can keep safe and everyone can smile about it.
Interested in more crazy ways to save money? Then here are a few more posts I wrote about saving as an extreme sport:
Seriously Thrifty? Some Wild Ways To Save (Part 1)
22 Outrageous Ways To Save (Part 2)
Radical Ways To Save Money On Your Wedding
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I think a lot of this stuff is reasonable. Growing up my family always used the turkey bones after thanksgiving to make soup stock with, and it’s only a small step to doing this with chicken on a regular basis.
Hanging up laundry can save a pretty good amount of money, and you spend more time outside.
The different toilets is a great way to save a tiny bit of money but mostly to reduce water consumption, which is a growing national problem. I’d applaud them for their proactive approach.
Just shows how there are lots of different points of view I guess.
Water cheapskate - This is actually good for the environment too. However, it can be a bit… er… bad. You’re better off going with a low flush toilet or just putting a brick in the tank. Heck, you can install a zero water urinal at home if you really want to.
Kitty Horseshoes - That depends on the litter and how it’s used. I’d be more worried about the chemicals in some litters than in the cat urine. Some natural litters are actually good gardening material, even after they’re slightly used.
Tea Anyone? - No reason not to use leftovers to make something else. I never understood people’s aversion to leftovers. It’s the same food.
Gal
A former employer specifically allowed employees to take home $3 worth of (”free”) supplies per week. He’d factor that in and increase his orders to take advantage of quantity price breaks, so the net cost was minimal.
hahah these people are hilarious. It’s funny because I just recently wrote about my frugal/cheap coworkers. Besides that, my grandparents are pretty cheap. My grandma used to collect popsicle sticks from the street, take home and wash them and make popsicles. She also didn’t use diapers on my cousin, instead, she used plastic bags.
Great stories, this all brings to mind my beloved departed grandmother who was also extremely cheap. What is it about old people and tightwad behavior? My grandma, bless her soul, used to recycle gifts all the time and not just the gift, but also the gift paper! It was often sadly obvious that the paper was reused because it was (1) crumpled (2) had tape still stuck to it in odd places (3) had torn areas were tape was removed.
I have fond memories of her and her extreme frugality!
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Wow, I haven’t laughed that hard in a long time. Thanks!
Excellent.
I’ve actually sort of done what the sleepwashing guy did, except that my washing machine has a delay start button, which means that you don’t have to get up to turn it on, you can just time it to finish when you wake up.
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Wow! Some of these are a little (or way) over the top! Some are also just plain disgusting or unhealthy.
The chicken bones for stock is a common thing. It’s great for soup and recipes.
My dad used to work with a cheapskate who ate a free lunch in the cafeteria each day:
tomato soup - made w/ free ketchup, salt, pepper, hot water
crackers
lemonade - made w/ free lemon slices, sugar, water
This was a well-paid engineer at a Fortune 500 company.
Sometimes, I really don’t get how the most highly paid people can be so stingy. But then again, that’s what they say is the profile of “The Millionaire Next Door”. At the same time, these people are not very well understood, are made fun of, criticized, etc. etc. when in fact, they espouse values that will probably get them to a good financial place faster than most people. But I shouldn’t be saying this really — because it’s a case of “the pot calling the kettle black.”
Looking back at my own financial history, I have to say I functioned to some degree like these office guys for a long long time, having to deflect lots of jokes and mild criticism from those around me. Ironically, today, these are the same people who criticize me for spending too much!! I can’t win can I??
“Sometimes, I really don’t get how the most highly paid people can be so stingy.”
I asked a wealth client of mine that exact question when he was negotiating my rate for a project (lopping off a couple dollars with every breath during the discussion). He stopped for a moment and said - “How did you think I got rich in the first place?”
RE: cheap grandparents. It’s because most of them grew up in a totally different culture, in which they had to be cheap by necessity. My one grandmother who grew up poor can’t be persuaded to fix up the bathroom that grosses me out with its disrepair. My other grandmother who grew up wealthy before her family lost all their money during World War II is frugal but understands the value of spending on some things (like me when I visit
).
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I’m a bit of a tea aficionado, and I reuse tea bags once or twice. Generally you can get a couple of good steeps out of one tea bag before it all becomes watery. I generally do this to stretch out more expensive teas.
I get po’d when people talk about “free ketchup” or stuff like that. It isn’t free. A certain portion of ketchup is considered by the management as appropriate for use when eating their food. The ketchup offered isn’t offered to rid you of your ketchup needs for the rest of your lives. People who take extra for “making cheapskate soup” or whatever lame excuse are just making it more expensive for everyone by taking more than the expected portion. (Just a pet peeve!)
The cheapest person I know is easily my father in law. My fave story of his penny pinching (to the point where Lincoln cries out in pain!) is when we had a pretty big windstorm that took out power for almost a week. On the first day, the grocery store nearest us was selling all their ice to help people try to save as much food in home freezers as possible. The cash registers were not working (the power was out) and they were charging one dollar for the regular sized bags of ice. A few weeks later, my father in law found out the ice usually sells for 99 cents— and he wanted my mother in law to go back and get the penny, with no receipt of course- since the cash register was out.
I don’t know if she really did go back; if it was me I would have thrown a penny at him.
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I thought I knew some cheap people but I don’t think I do after this. Hilarious and sad at the same time.
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I don’t see anything wrong with line drying or disabling the heat-dry feature on the dishwasher. The machines still do the work of cleaning for you. It’s the forced hot air drying that uses so much electricity.
Most of these examples are unethical. Yes, unfortunately, many rich people got that way by being unethical, but you can be frugal and get rich without stealing from others (which many of these examples essentially are) or creating a public health hazard.
Except for putting the toilet paper in a plastic bag (sounds like a possible health hazard), Water Cheapskate is actually a creative way to apply the let yellow mellow, flush brown down concept. Sleepwashing and Airdrying are also reasonable, although usually dishwashers have an option to air dry so I don’t know why he has to switch buttons? I make stock from chicken bones, although I don’t use the ones that people have been gnawing on. I’m sure the boiling would kill the germs but it’s kind of icky. Homemade vacuum cleaner bags? Nothing wrong with that if they work for you.
My family tend to be on the spendthrift side and I often cringe at their spending but I’m so glad they’re not like these people! Trash popcorn buckets, bathroom with mushrooms growing? Ugh!
These are awesome. I feel so much better about my frugal lifestyle!
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